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[blm]

For years... I've argued against the label of mysognist (gonna miss spell that word a lot!) simply because I play video games, or because I'm straight, or whatever. But after these last few months, after TONIGHT I gladly embrace that term.

I am one.. fuck all of of you I'm done with this, being seen as some diseased monster simply because I'm not 6'2 and 100% muscle and make 300,000 a month. You cry and whine that men "are so shallow" when it's the literal opposite.

Japan has the right idea..

Comments

[omnipotent]

I really do think it is the area you are in. And a lot of people of all genders have unrealistic expectations of what they want in a partner (i.e., super petite women who will only date suuuper tall men, etc).

[blm]

I don't really know if it is just this area anymore. Granted, my branching out was only done via online media (using dating sites but changing my location to bigger cities) and it was the same old same old. I used a fake account at the same time, two of them actually, and messaged the same women. I didn't do anything like "send nudes" it was just to see if they'd talk to a handsome "rich" guy instead of me.. and they would.

I'm done..

[heartonsnow]

I understand your anger but you are generalising!!

Many women do not like big rich macho shitheads and find it much easier to relate to the slight artistic, philosophical types.

But I really understand your anger as I have always hated feeling that I should be slim and pretty and vacant!

[blm]

I've tried for a long time not to generalize, and at this point the only reason I am is because this has been the only experience I've had my entire adult life.

[heartonsnow]

Yeah, well me too.

[aeris]

Welcome to the club. Have a drink; I've been here for years.

[blm]

I'll have twenty drinks, and another twenty to go, and then maybe five more.. but just a small fries.